splitsun replied to your post “violator”

You’re definitely being profiled if it’s every single time. I’ve never gotten searched or had my breasts patted in MIA (yet).

It’s happened twice. I used to fly through that airport at least once a year and nothing. Then it happened once and then the next time I flew through it happened again, about a year after. I’m not sure if I can say it’s a pattern per se. But I’ve decided I’m wearing something close fitting and putting my hair in a bun and we’ll see how that goes. If it happens again then I guess I’m being profiled.

mrzstargazzer:

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southernsideofme:

A raccoon was attacking his dog so he banished it to the shadow realm.

I just choked on my chocolate milk 😂

“REEEVVVVEENNNnnnggeee…”

THIS BITCH EMPTY…..!!

I hollered 😂😂😂

I want to see more videos of people defending their dogs, this is my new favorite thing

^^

I bet that raccoon was fine too. Just bounced off the stairs and kept it moving. 😂

I just woke up the whole damn house 😂😂

That was actually Kevin Rose, the founder of Digg

random fact

It is considerably cheaper to fly from Tobago to Frankfurt than Tobago to London.

I don’t know why either but good thing I’m not looking to go to London.

things you take for granted

Growing up as a kid in Trinidad Santa came in all colours. I saw Black Santas, White Santas, Chinese Santas… whoever was willing to wear the suit was basically the only criteria. I mean it’s not like we have a ton of fat white men available in the country anyway. It never, ever occurred to me that it was strange to see a non-White Santa. 

Embossing gift boxes 🎁 In preparation for next Sunday’s UpMarket… my last for the year!!! #diy #giftsforher #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean

violator

We have to pass through Miami on our way to Mexico and all I can think about is that those fuckers from TSA are going to check my motherfucking hair.

The past couple of times I’ve flown through they’ve done it. It’s so fucking invasive and violating. Like what the FUCK would I be carrying in my fucking hair. And this is after I go through the fucking scan.

I used to think it was just because I have curly big hair but a guy I know who is Black and has basically the lowest possible haircut without being bald told me they checked what is basically his scalp, too. So I don’t know if it’s a Black people thing cause I’ve never seen them check White people’s hair. But it fucking boils my blood every time it happens.

parliamentrook:

“ Energy Transfer Partners and Sunoco Logistics Partners Respond to the Statement from the Department of the Army

DALLAS & NEWTOWN SQUARE, Pa.–(BUSINESS WIRE)–Dec. 4, 2016– Energy Transfer Partners, L.P.(NYSE: ETP) and Sunoco Logistics Partners L.P. (NYSE: SXL) announced that the Administration’s statement today that it would not at this time issue an “easement” to Dakota Access Pipeline is a purely political action – which the Administration concedes when it states it has made a “policy decision” – Washington code for a political decision. This is nothing new from this Administration, since over the last four months the Administration has demonstrated by its action and inaction that it intended to delay a decision in this matter until President Obama is out of office.

This Smart News Release features multimedia. View the full release here:http://www.businesswire.com/news/home/20161204005090/en/

For more than three years now, Dakota Access Pipeline has done nothing but play by the rules. The Army Corps of Engineers agrees, and has said so publicly and in federal court filings. The Corps’ review process and its decisions have been ratified by two federal courts. The Army Corps confirmed this again today when it stated its “policy decision” does “not alter the Army’s position that the Corps’ prior reviews and actions have comported with legal requirements.”
In spite of consistently stating at every turn that the permit for the crossing of the Missouri River at Lake Oahe granted in July 2016, comported with all legal requirements, including the use of an environmental assessment, rather than an environmental impact statement, the Army Corps now seeks to engage in additional review and analysis of alternative locations for the pipeline.

The White House’s directive today to the Corps for further delay is just the latest in a series of overt and transparent political actions by an administration which has abandoned the rule of law in favor of currying favor with a narrow and extreme political constituency.

As stated all along, ETP and SXL are fully committed to ensuring that this vital project is brought to completion and fully expect to complete construction of the pipeline without any additional rerouting in and around Lake Oahe. Nothing this Administration has done today changes that in any way. “

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This is the response from the the DAPL people from 11pm tonight. 

Look at this fuckery

Vibes

One thing I really like about me and Chris is that we read people the same. I’ve never met someone who I felt had a weird, fucked up or negative vibe and he was just like, I have no idea what you’re talking about! He picks up on the same energies I do.

I’ve always been very good at reading people’s energies. I see people and situations very clearly. So it’s been extremely frustrating my whole life to see people trust and befriend others that to me were so clearly unworthy of their time and attention. There’s a helplessness you feel knowing that something will turn out badly and being unable stop it. I have learnt that people do not listen to warnings. If they can’t see it they will stay until they do. I have had to learn to allow them their lessons. So I am tremendously grateful that I am spared this particular frustration with him.

He just told me today, by the way, that someone I met some months ago who I told him had a really dark, negative energy, is in hiding because he has a hit out on him due to his dealings with a certain drug cartel.

The man had black energy coming out of his every pore. I’m not surprised. But I am always surprised by the amount of people who would not see it.

My darling husband passed the fuck out about an hour ago.

UpMarket is so tiring. And I had to send him back home to get stuff I forgot. He is such a tremendous help to me.

When we got home I fed him and we watched Zootopia and that was it for him.

I’m watching The Intern. Old retired intern Robert Di Nero is very sweet.

I’m trying to figure out if there is a less offensive way to refer to someone who works in your home, cleans, cooks and maybe serves you on occasion, than calling them a maid. Servant sounds too Upstairs/Downstairs. Help too uppity. A housekeeper is ok but it’s more involved than what a maid does. I don’t know why this is rolling around in my mind. I haven’t had to tackle this dilemma in real life in a very long time. But I’d still like to find an elegant solution to this.

Someone commented to me how they found it strange that I was going away for Christmas.

For the better part of the past 15 years it’s been our family norm out of necessity.

At one point the only people living in the same place were me and my mom. My dad was in Barbados, my brother in California, my sister in Illinois then Kentucky. Christmas is the only time we ever got to be a family. So we would pick a location and all meet up there. That’s how we do it. We rarely ever meet up in Trinidad because hey, why not go somewhere else? We like to travel.

Everyone has their family traditions. Ours evolved into this. I do miss the traditional home Christmas, but the alternative is to miss my family. So I’ll take this.

UpMarketments

Today was my second to last market for the year. I’ll be so happy once they’re all done. Sales felt slow today but were actually pretty decent. I just never got that big chunk of customers like I usually do. They all came one by one. But they definitely added up.

People keep asking me where else do I sell and if I have a store and where else can they buy my stuff. I find it a really odd question when they’re standing right there in front of all my inventory. At this point I just tell the UpMarket is it. I do not show my jewelry in my home nor do I have a store. It’s kind of why I do the market. It’s why we all do it. If I had a store I wouldn’t be paying all that money for a table.

It turns out that the vendor I’ve sat next to at the past two markets that I really hit it off with is kind of family. Her uncle was one of Chris’s and my dad’s best friends. It’s a whole family who aren’t technically family but are kind of thing. No wonder I liked her so much!

I bought the most beautiful giraffe today. He’s wood and hand painted from Bali. I just had to have him.

Mentally I am already on vacation. One more to go. I can’t wait for the 19th.

In Iceland, books are exchanged on Christmas Eve, and you spend the rest of the night reading. People generally take their books to bed along with some chocolate. How cozy and wonderful does that sound?

(More fun facts: Iceland publishes more books per capita than any other country, and new books are typically published only during the Christmas season—the frenzy is called Jólabókaflóð, or the Christmas Book Flood.)

profeminist:

mossyhil:

profeminist:

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Gender-affirming hormone therapy is available for individuals whose gender identity does not match their sex assigned at birth. Hormone therapy is covered by Medicaid and most insurance programs. For anyone who is uninsured or under-insured, PPNYC’s financial counselors can help find a payment option that will work for them. Appointments can be scheduled at 212-965-7000.

“Transgender and nonconforming individuals often face barriers to accessing the services they need, including discrimination from providers and lack of education about their health needs,” Malin continued. “Offering hormone therapy in an inclusive, welcoming environment is an important part of meeting the needs of trans and gender nonconforming communities in New York.”

For an interview with a spokesperson, contact Carrie Mumah at 212-274-7294 or carrie.mumah@ppnyc.org.”

Source: Planned Parenthood of NY City

Just setting this Oregon PP link right here.  No reason

I C what you did there! Thanks!!

Planned Parenthood Columbia Willamette offers transgender hormone provision at our NE Health Center, located at 3727 NE Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd, Portland, OR 97212  

Planned Parenthood of New York City Will Begin Offering Transgender Hormone Therapy

profeminist:

“Luxembourg’s Prime Minister Xavier Bettel married his partner Gauthier Destenay on Friday, becoming the first European Union leader to enter a gay marriage.

Teri Schultz tells our Newscast unit that Bettel becomes the second world leader to do so. Iceland’s Prime Minister Johanna Sigurdardottir married her partner five years ago.

The interesting part about this development is that gay marriage is a relatively new thing in Luxembourg. As The Guardian reports, Bettel’s party won a prominent spot in the ruling coalition after campaigning for same-sex marriage

Read the full piece here

Congratulations to the newlyweds!

Luxembourg Prime Minister Becomes First EU Leader To Marry Same-Sex Partner

Just for once I would love to finish a graphic design job and have the client contact me about final payment instead of me having to remind them. 

Just ONCE.

I actually woke up not feeling like I got run over by a truck. How pleasant.

I had weird dreams in which Chris was driving crazy all over the place and blasting samba music.

It was weird cause I don’t know a lot of samba but there was variety. And I kept wondering if I knew or understood enough Portuguese to make up the lyrics in the dream (I always have lucid dreams in that I’m aware that I’m dreaming) and apparently my brain somehow smoothed it over so that I couldn’t identify the language.

Samba. No idea what that was about. I’m going to Mexico not Brazil.

everydayjewels replied to your post: “I’ve only had the flu for a week but I’ve already forgotten what…”:

When I had a really really bad flu two Xmases ago, I was literally bedridden for almost two weeks. I know that feeling of wondering if health will ever return. It sucks so much…sending you healing vibes 💕

Thank you Hun! I have been practically bedridden for the past week and it is so boring! Give thanks for health man. I know I’ll get better.

I’ve only had the flu for a week but I’ve already forgotten what normal feels like. Like the idea of doing something I would have done before sounds impossible and insurmountable. Going to the gym, having a drink with friends, cooking a meal. The amount of energy that would require! Sick has apparently become my new normal. This sucks man. I really need to get better soon.

caribbeanpainters2:

‘View North from Mount Montana’ (c1870) by Trinidadian artist Michel-Jean Cazabon.

Nowadays Michel-Jean Cazabon (1813-1888) is generally regarded as one of the Caribbean’s first great painters. But in his time he was appreciated more in Europe than in his country.

His scenes of a clean, natural and unspoiled Trinidad show a country as it was before the heavy industrialization of the twentieth century. His work is rich in details and excels in the use of light and shadow.

#caribbean #caribbeanpainter #caribbeanart #micheljeancazabon #cazabon #trinidad #trinidadianpainter #trinidadiannart #trinyart #painting #art #landscape #nature #trees #green #lush #flamingo #lake #instacool #instaart #artoftheday #followart #iloveart #twitart #arts_gate #artstarsmag

I woke up at 10:30 this morning and I must have gone to sleep around 10 last night. This fucking flu is just making me exhausted. I feel ok otherwise, I’m just tired all the time.

The only day I was able to work this week was Tuesday. Fortunately the client whose order I was working on decided she didn’t want it until the 12th so I can relax on that. There was another outstanding order that I was gonna drag myself into the studio to work on but the jewelry gods blessed me. The client emailed to cancel the order last night. I’ve never been so happy to lose a sale before.

Chris and I both have sinus infections. I told him we need to get rid of that before our vacation because flying with a sinus infection can be very painful. My netti pot seems to be helping mine. Now if only my damn ears would unclog. I can’t hear shit.

I’m gonna work on our itinerary today. 

Man this flu is a bitch.

Every time I think I’m getting better I wake up the next day feeling shittier.

Today it’s been a headache from hell and I’ve just slept all day.

I really want cake. Or donuts.

Solar quartz necklaces in #blue #pink #white and #green. Solar quartz are slices of #stalagtites that have been dyed, polished and electroplated in gold. Pick one up with a matching bracelet this Sunday at UpMarket. #jewelry #handmade #necklace #goldfilled #solarquartz #oneofakindjewelry #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean

everydayjewels:

ladugard:

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cindehella:

lord-kitschener:

arealliveghost:

stillvisions:

maybenotboring:

and at no point has anyone thought “maybe we should not build a giant flammable goat this year”

They tried fireproofing. And armed guards. And fences, and cameras… Sadly the wikipedia page has been cut down by super srs folks to remove all the awesome Keystone cops tales of the goat’s history (emphasis added by me)

  • 1966 Stig Gavlén came up with the idea of a giant goat made out of straw. But it turned out that Gavlén organisation did not have enough funding for the goat. Then Harry Ström, who at that time was the chairman of the Södra Kungsgatan Ideella Förening (a non-profit society), decided to pay the whole cost for the goat out of his own pocket. The goat stood until midnight of New Year’s Eve, when it went up in flames. The perpetrator, who was from Hofors,Gästrikland, was found and convicted of vandalism. The first goat was insured and Ström got all his money back.
  • 1967 Nothing happened.
  • 1968 The goat survived. A fence was built around the goat. Previously it was popular for children to play hide-and-seek inside and around the goat. There was also a rumor that one night a couple had sex inside the goat. In subsequent years the inside of the goat was protected by a chicken-wire net.
  • 1969 The goat was burnt down on New Year’s Eve.
  • 1970 The goat was burnt down only six hours after it was assembled. Two very drunk teenagers were connected with the crime. With help from several financial contributors the goat was reassembled out of lake reed.
  • 1971 The Southern Merchants got tired of their goats being burned and stopped building the goat. The Natural Science Club (Naturvetenskapliga Föreningen:NF) from the School of Vasa (Vasaskolan) took over. 
  • 1972 The goat collapsed because of sabotage.
  • 1973 N/A
  • 1974 Burnt.
  • 1975 N/A
  • 1976 Hit by a car.
  • 1977 N/A
  • 1978 Again, the goat was kicked to pieces.
  • 1979 The goat was burnt even before it was erected. A new one was built and fireproofed. It was destroyed and broken into pieces.
  • 1980 Burnt down on Christmas Eve.
  • 1981 Nothing happened.
  • 1982 Burnt down on Lucia (13 December).
  • 1983 The legs were destroyed.
  • 1984 Burnt down on 12 December, the night before Lucia.
  • 1985 The 12.5 metre (41 ft) tall goat of the Natural Science Club was featured in the Guinness Book of Records for the first time. Even though the goat was enclosed by a 2 metres (6.6 ft) high metal fence, guarded by Securitas and even soldiers from the Gävle I 14 Infantry Regiment, it was burnt down in January.
  • 1986 The merchants of Gävle decided they were willing to build the goat once again. From 1986 on two goats were built, the Southern Merchants’ and the School of Vasa’s. The big goat burnt down the night before Christmas Eve.
  • 1987 A heavily fireproofed goat was built. It got burnt down a week before Christmas.[21]
  • 1988 Nothing happened to the goat, but gamblers were for the first time able to gamble on the fate of the goat with English bookmakers.
  • 1989 Again, the goat burnt down before it was assembled. Financial contributions from the public were raised to rebuild a goat that was burnt down in January. In March 1990 another goat was built, this time for the shooting of a Swedish motion picture called Black Jack.
  • 1990 Nothing happened. The goat was guarded by many volunteers.
  • 1991 The goat was joined by an advertising sled, that turned out to be illegally built. On the morning of Christmas Eve the goat was burnt down. It was later rebuilt to be taken to Stockholm as a part of a protest campaign against the closing of the I 14 Infantry Regiment.
  • 1992 The goat was burnt down eight days after it was built. The Natural Science Club’s goat burnt down the same night. The Southern Merchants’ goat was rebuilt, but burned down on 20 December. The perpetrator of the three attacks was caught and sent to jail. The Goat Committee was founded in 1992.
  • 1993 Once more the goat was featured in the Guinness Book of Records, the School of Vasa’s goat measured 14.9 metres (49 ft). The goat was guarded by taxis and the Swedish Home Guard. Nothing happened.
  • 1994 Nothing happened. The goat followed the Swedish national hockey team to Italy for the World Championship in hockey.
  • 1995 A Norwegian was arrested for attempting to burn down the goat. Burnt down on the morning of Christmas Day. Rebuilt to be standing before the 550th anniversary of Gävle county.
  • 1996 The first time the goat was guarded by webcams, nothing happened.
  • 1997 Damaged by fireworks. The Natural Science Club’s goat was attacked too, but survived with minor damage.
  • 1998 Burnt down on 11 December, even though there was a major blizzard. Was rebuilt.
  • 1999 Burnt down only a couple of hours after it was erected. Rebuilt again before Lucia. The Natural Science Club’s goat was burnt down as well.
  • 2000 Burnt down a couple of days before New Year’s Eve. The Natural Science Club’s goat got tossed in the Gävle river.
  • 2001 Goat set on fire on 23 December by Lawrence Jones, a 51-year-old visitor from Cleveland, Ohio, who spent 18 days in jail and was subsequently convicted and ordered to pay 100,000 Swedish kronor in damages. The court confiscated Jones’s cigarette lighter with the argument that he clearly was not able to handle it. Jones stated in court that he was no “goat burner”, and believed that he was taking part in a completely legal goat-burning tradition. After Jones was released from jail he went straight back to the US without paying his fine. As of 2006 it was still unpaid. The Natural Science Club’s goat was also burnt down.
  • 2002 A 22 year old from Stockholm tried to set the Southern Merchants’ goat on fire, but failed, the goat receiving only minor damage. On Lucia the goat was guarded by Swedish radio and TV personality Gert Fylking.
  • 2003 Burnt down on 12 December.
  • 2004 Burnt 21 December, only three days before Christmas Eve. The fire brigade quickly arrived on the scene, but the goat could not be saved. No new goat was built.
  • 2005 Burnt by unknown vandals reportedly dressed as Santa and the gingerbread man, by shooting a flaming arrow at the goat at 21:00 on 3 December. Reconstructed on 5 December. The hunt for the arsonist responsible for the goat-burning in 2005 was featured on the weekly Swedish live broadcast TV3’s “Most Wanted“ (”Efterlyst”) on 8 December.
  • 2006 On the night of 15 December at 03:00, someone tried to set fire to the goat by dousing the right front leg in petrol (gasoline). The red ribbon on that leg was slightly burned and fell off. The lower part of the right leg was scorched, but the rest of the goat failed to light. The leg was repaired that morning. The Natural Science Club’s goat was burned at about 00:40 on 20 December; the vandals were not seen and got away. On the night of 25 December, a drunken man managed to climb up on the goat. Before the police arrived on the scene the man climbed down and disappeared. He did not try to set fire to the goat. The Southern Merchants’ goat survived New Year’s Eve and was taken down on 2 January. It is now stored in a secret location.
  • 2007 The Natural Science Club’s goat was toppled on 13 December and was burned on the night of 24 December. The Southern Merchants’ goat survived.
  • 2008 10,000 people turned out for the inauguration of one of the goats. No back-up goat was built to replace the main goat should the worst happen, nor was the goat treated with flame repellent (Anna Östman, spokesperson of the Goat-committee said the repellent made it look ugly in the previous years, like a brown terrier). On 16 December the Natural Science Club’s Goat was vandalised and later removed. On 26 December there was an attempt to burn down the Southern Merchants’ Goat but patriotic passers-by managed to extinguish the fire. The following day the goat finally succumbed to the flames ignited by an unknown assailant at 03:50 CET.
  • 2009 A person attempted to set the Southern Merchants’ goat on fire the night of 7 December. An unsuccessful attempt was made to throw the Natural Science Club’s goat into the river the weekend of 11 December. The culprit then tried, again without success, to set the goat on fire. Someone stole the Natural Science Club’s goat utilizing a truck the night of 14 December.[36] On the night of 23 December before 04:00 the South Merchant goat was set on fire and was burned to the frame, even though it had a thick layer of snow on its back.[37] The goat had two online webcams which were put out of service by aDoS attack, instigated by computer hackers just before the burning.[38]
  • 2010 On the night of 2 December, arsonists made an unsuccessful attempt to burn the Natural Science Club’s goat.[39] On 17 December, a Swedish news site reported that one of the guards tasked with protecting the Southern Merchants’ goat had been offered payment to leave his post so that the goat could be stolen via helicopter and transported to Stockholm. Both goats survived and were dismantled and returned to storage in early January 2011.
  • 2011 The inauguration of the goat took place on 27 November. The fire-fighters of Gävle sprayed the goat with water to create a coating of ice in the hope of protecting it from arson. The goat was burnt down in the early morning of 2 December.
  • 2012 The inauguration of the goat took place on 2 December. It was burnt just ten days later in the hours before midnight of 12 December, one day before Lucia.
  • 2013 As in 2006 and 2007, the straw used to build the goat has been soaked in anti-flammable liquid to prevent it from burning in the event of an arson attack. The inauguration ceremony took place on 1 December. But despite the anti-flammable liquids the goat was burnt down on the early morning of December 21.

Any history of plots involving a DDoS attack on the security cameras, a plot to steal it with a helicopter and flaming arrows shot by people dressed as Santa and the Gingerbread man is just plain hilarious in my book.

I’m laughing so much about this goat. obviously if you build something big enough people are going to have sex in it and burn it down. obviously

what the fuck is going on in sweden

how will the saga continue this year

2015: The goat was burned.

I lost it at the last comment.

Reblog for the season.

I heard the goat got burned already

Well…

Gävlebocken celebrates its 50 years anniversary by getting burned down on the first day

I remember reading about this back in 2008 or 2009. I always wondered if they ever managed to prevent the Xmas goat from being burned. Good to know the flame is still alive!

Of course this year the goat burned down within 24 hours. It’s 2016.

I had a long chat with my sister today. I miss her so much. I’m looking forward to getting in some serious sister time with her next month.

We talked a lot about our Dad, good things and bad. When you grow up in a house with a lot of dysfunction, with emotional and physical abuse, it’s very hard as an adult to find a place where you can be emotionally level. The trauma of that kind of life never really goes away. You just have to find ways to deal with it. But you spend the rest of your life trying unlearn bad habits and not react to triggers.

All of us, the three of us, are deeply scarred. We’ve dealt with it in different ways. I’m probably the most healthy because I’m the most confrontational. And I don’t think I’m like that naturally but I became that way because I didn’t want to live in silence, and carry the weight of our family secrets with me for the rest of my life. I didn’t want to live in an emotional prison. So I spoke up, spoke out, I confronted my parents. I spoke the truth. It got me ostracized and made me a target but I dealt with it.

Our family has been… in crisis for so long. And I just want everyone to be happy and healthy. We have so much healing to do. A lifetime’s worth. But at this stage I’ve relinquished my role. I don’t want to lead the conversation anymore. It’s everyone’s time to see about themselves. I just want peace in my life. I deserve peace and happiness. We all do.

adrpro:

Vintage House
Was passing this house and it felt like something you would see in an old book about Trinidad and Tobago.
#nightphotography #vintage #phonephotography #doorstep #dog #frame #trinidadandtobago #caribbeanlife #puppy #phoyography

It just switched to Teenager In Love. I think one of my 50’s &60’s CD collections is playing in my brain tonight.

Why do I have the song Tallahassee Lassie running on a loop through my head?

My brain is so fucking weird

guenifhar:

bshenanigans:

21stgoddamncentury:

If your job can be taken by a hypothetical unskilled, non-English-speaking illegal immigrant or outsourced worker, I’m going to give you some bad advice.

I’m going to give you the same bad advice you gave millennials: stop whining, you’re not entitled to anything and nobody owes you a job.

I’m going to give you the same bad advice you gave minimum wage workers: stop being lazy. Get a skill. work harder and you’ll move up.

I’m going to give you the same bad advice you gave sexual assault victims: you should have made better choices and this wouldn’t have happened to you.

And when you find that this advice is not helpful or even true, then instead of attacking your fellow worker, the one who’s willing to work for less than a legal wage to feed his family, maybe you should go after the structures of power that allow and incentivize your employer’s choice to relocate your job.

This is amazing

adi-fitri:

pithy-partyy:

animatedamerican:

popcanpoli:

a-duck-among-humans:

popcanpoli:

@SaraSoueidan: Dear men, This is how you greet a veiled Muslim woman (a Hijabi). Hand on your chest, not offering to shake hers. 🙋

so prominent BLM activist deray mckesson just retweeted this which i think is super cool for various reasons :)))

I did not know this. Is it OK for a non Muslim woman to shake hands with a Hijabi? Or do we do the hand on chest thing too?@popcanpoli

hey so i don’t wear a hijab and i’m not muslim so i definitely don’t have the authority to answer this question (or any other questions i’ve been getting abt this) (i’m just a lil canadian politics blog i didn’t expect this to blow up lol) 

BUT here are some tweets by the original tweeter (who wears a hijab) that clarify some things

one: 

two:

three: 

This is also good if you’re meeting an Orthodox Jewish person who’s not the same gender as you!  Not all Orthodox Jews hold by this restriction, and many consider it a permissible exception to shake hands in a formal greeting context; I’d guess this is parallel to Ms. Soueidan’s last-quoted tweet above.  And as that says, the sensible thing is to wait for initiation.

learned something new. awesome

Especially reblogging because I love finding out the situation is exactly the same for Muslims as Orthodox Jews! Thanks, @animatedamerican

camelmenthol:

serafinacastaway:

osunism:

5alas:

bitterbitchclubpresident:

This is what white privilege looks like.

This is why we need to be critical of whites who enter non-white spaces.

This is disgusting.

GET. THEM. OUT.

White people go home.

This is not your bullshit religious awakening, this is people’s LIVES. Help out or go the fuck home, not everything is for you!

White people are colonising the camps. I mean that seriously. They are
coming in, taking food, clothing… and occupying space without any
desire to participate in camp maintenance and without respect of tribal
protocols,” said protestor Alicia Smith on Facebook.
“I even witnessed several wandering in and out of camps comparing it to
festivals. Waiting with big smiles expectantly for us to give them a
necklace or an ‘indian’ name while our camp leader was speaking.”

fucking disgusting

wtf is wrong with white people!

People are treating the DAPL protest like Burning Man

staff:

mooserattler:

bidoof:

mooserattler:

jjflow:

freshrosemary:

allthelittlebeagles:

moonblossom:

mooserattler:

Reblog this picture of me holding a Family Size box of Honey Nut Cheerios? I’d really appreciate it.

How can I say no to such a great photo and such a polite request?

i will always support this post

@mooserattler back on my dash!

Why isn’t this at a million notes, yet, Dante???

I’m not sure. Hey lovely people who have taken me over half way to a cool million! If you’d like to reblog again, I’d love that, if not, I still love you, and hope you’re having a great day. I’m gonna go do some stand up tonight.

god come on we’re so close. this is like the only meaningful thing that this website could ever achieve

Thanks, @staff!!!!!

❤️ ❤️ ❤️

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After UpMarket I went to the pharmacy and told the pharmacist my symptoms.

She gave me a syrup thingy and told me that within 24 I would start feeling much better.

And damn she was right. It’s been 24 hours and I feel 10x better than I did yesterday. Even this morning. I mean I’m not up to going jogging or anything but I don’t feel like I got run over by a truck anymore.

Got up at 5. Took some meds. Can’t go back to sleep. My throat is so fucking sore man. I feel like shit.

At least the meds will kick in soon and knock me out.

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allthelittlebeagles:

moonblossom:

mooserattler:

Reblog this picture of me holding a Family Size box of Honey Nut Cheerios? I’d really appreciate it.

How can I say no to such a great photo and such a polite request?

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@mooserattler back on my dash!

Why isn’t this at a million notes, yet, Dante???

I’m not sure. Hey lovely people who have taken me over half way to a cool million! If you’d like to reblog again, I’d love that, if not, I still love you, and hope you’re having a great day. I’m gonna go do some stand up tonight.

god come on we’re so close. this is like the only meaningful thing that this website could ever achieve

I’m fully committed to this cause

I think I’ve bought a million boxes of this

I think I’ve finally given up on wearing eyeliner in my lower rim.

With my oily skin and the humidity here I always end up looking like a raccoon.

No amount of powder or fixative spray or anything will keep it in place.

And of course because eyeliner has staying properties that defy the laws of the universe, even if it took a fire hose to my eyes I will always end up with some residue the day after. So that’s two days of raccoon eyes.

I fucking give up. 

UpMarket Stuff

Doing UpMarket on a regular day is tiring enough. Doing it when you have the flu makes you wonder if you will collapse of exhaustion before the day’s end.

By the time I finished setting up I had a slight fever and my ears were blocked up so I could barely hear. I was feeling rotten and didn’t have the energy to give good service so I let Chris handle a lot of the sales. He’s aces my guy.

Remember the girl who asked me if I used real amethyst and genuine pearls? She came to meet me to discuss the necklace she wanted me to make. My instincts about her were spot on. I think the dislike was mutual. She bought another necklace and we never finalized the custom one. I’m glad. I didn’t want to make it and when I don’t want to make something everything goes wrong with the order.

Today was a necklace day. Some days it’s bracelets, some days it’s earring, some days it’s everything. But today was a necklace day.

I’ve had a lot of people saying they’ll come back next week to buy because they are only browsing. When that happens the piece they wanted always disappears almost immediately. It’s like magic.

There’s a girl who’s a vendor at the market who has this butt. I’m fascinated by it. I know I couldn’t describe it adequately but I’ll try. She usually wears dresses or skirts and from the front or back she looks quite slim, she has relatively narrow hips. But when you see her from the side it’s like, unbelievable. As Chris said today, she looks like it’s her butt and the person behind her’s butt in one. The protrusion is unreal. And it looks completely natural. Every time I see her I have grab Chris and point her out. I wasn’t exactly blessed in that department so I’m always envious of women with well padded rear ends. But she could give me half of hers and she’d still be breaking records.

Apparently when I’m drugged up on cold meds I get a little loopy and turn into a bit of a comedy act. I had the vendor at the next table cracking up and was giving Chris zingers all afternoon. It made the time go by faster and made me feel a little less shitty.

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my-feminism:

In the Netherlands, abortion is freely available on demand. Yet the Netherlands boasts the lowest abortion rate in the world, about 6 abortions per 1000 women per year, and the complication and death rates for abortion are miniscule. How do they do it? First of all, contraception is widely available and free — it’s covered by the national health insurance plan. Holland also carries out extensive public education on contraception, family planning, and sexuality. An ethic of personal responsibility for one’s sexual activity is strongly promoted. Of course, some people say that teaching kids about sex and contraception will only encourage them to have lots of sex. But Dutch teenagers tend to have less frequent sex, starting at an older age, than American teenagers, and the Dutch teenage pregnancy rate is 9 times lower than in the U.S.

I endorse evidence-based medicine, and evidence-based activism.

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I just remembered that with American oranges the rinds separate very easily from the flesh.

Our oranges? Not at all. You’re likely to lose your nails if you try to peel one of our oranges with your fingers.

I didn’t do any Black Friday shopping, but did I tell y’all that Chris bought us a DSLR camera? I’m so psyched it’s ridiculous.

Someone messaged me on facebook to say that she went to UpMarket today looking to purchase a particular piece of jewelry and I wasn’t there.

So I told her UpMarket is tomorrow.

So she asks if it’s not the same thing as IndieMarket.

Er, no?

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I’m feeling much better today, considering that I was roasting with fever last night.

When I woke up this morning my back was in a lot of pain and I felt very weak and tired. I was really worried about how I was going to do UpMarket tomorrow. 

Chris suggested I skip it but I can’t afford to give up a whole day of sales, especially when it’s month-end and people just got paid. He offered to do it on his own which was very sweet of him. I know he could, he has been with me at almost every one since I started and is definitely knowledgeable enough to answer all my customers’ questions, but I would still rather be there. This is my baby after all.

Right now I’m actually feeling pretty decent. I have a slight dry cough but after a day’s rest I think I’ll be good to go tomorrow. I’ll just be glad when this weekly market thing is over. It’s been really stressful. And while everyone else is now gearing up to do their Christmas shopping, I’m ready to go on vacation. I’m tired of all this madness already. I need a break.

I am sorry someone loved you badly, and that they made you feel like you take up more space than you deserve. I am sorry they abandoned you when you need them the most and it has made you believe that love is an awful thing that hurts.

Apart from being based on naïve and simplistic ideas about how language works, the other big problem with the ‘women, stop undermining yourselves’ approach is that it presupposes a deficit model of women’s language-use. If women use the word ‘sorry’ more than men (and by the way, that’s a genuine ‘if’: I’m not aware of any compelling evidence they do), that can only mean that women are over-using ‘sorry’, apologizing when it isn’t necessary or appropriate. The alternative interpretation—that men are under-using ‘sorry’ because they don’t always apologise when the circumstances demand it —is surely no less logical or plausible, but somehow it never comes up. As I said back in the summer, the assumption is always that ‘a woman’s place is in the wrong’.

Well now I know what the three words are

Four words? Whatever. That’s can’t be it. That’s my four words.

Body aches and pains, headache, fever. What is that the flu?

Chris is gonna make me Mac and cheese. All I feel for is comfort food.

I’m on the start of Gilmore Girls Fall 😦

Well I feel completely and utterly like shit. I went from normal this morning to sniffles half and hour ago to wanting to curl up in fetal position and get intravenously fed chicken soup.

So since I feel too shitty to work I am not going to feel guilty about treating myself to a binge-watch of the new Gilmour Girls. I’d been saving it but hey, this sounds like the right time.

So this is the entire breakdown of my genetic ancestry. The first is from FamilyTreeDNA which did my test. 

I was able to upload the raw DNA data on a few other sites and the results all came out the same. The second pic is from DNA Land which gave me a more accurate breakdown as to where specifically my ancestors came from in India and Africa. There are slight differences between to two but nothing notable.

I suppose one of the biggest surprises was the Siberian/Scandanavian/EasternEuropean ancestry. I knew I had ancestors from Britain and the Iberian Peninsula but not from there. 

I was also surprised by how much Chinese ancestry I inherited. I’m only technically 1/8 Chinese but according to this a full 1/5 of my makeup is from that region.

I was also really glad to find out finally how much African ancestry I had. It’s pretty much the only thing I share from both parents and I was always curious as to what the percentage was.

There were no huge surprises here, just small ones. I have a good idea of my background.  For the most part all the Asian stuff is my mom. My Dad was mostly European and African. 

My family was very eager to see the breakdown. My half sister was especially fascinated. I know my brother wants to get tested too. It would be interesting to see how our results differ.

So this is me. What a mix up! I have my very open-minded ancestors to thank. 

God I spoke too soon re Chris’s cold. I’m definitely coming down with something.

Steups. Three weeks before I travel.

I better recover in time.

Agate druzy slice earrings. Beautiful one of a kind pieces available at UpMarket this Sunday. #handmade #jewelry #earrings #agate #slice #blue #green #white #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean

There are many things in your heart you can never tell to another person. They are your private joys and sorrows, and you can never tell them. You cheapen yourself, the inside of yourself, when you tell them.

Greta Garbo (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

We didn’t celebrate thanksgiving but I made Chris some lamb with potatoes and Brussels sprouts with bits of bacon.

Chris is not generally effusive in his praise but he went on and on about it so I’m guessing he enjoyed it.

He’s fast asleep and I’m here trying to figure out why I’m still up. Cause I slept like crap last night.

Bonus: it’s raining.

gogetfruitpunched:

Okay, but imagine if Tumblr mobile let you know when you got a fucking message instead of being a piece of shit and making me look like an asshole for blogging and not responding as if I’m ignoring everyone when really I’m just on my phone.

Custom order, large raw amethyst set in sterling silver on a hammered wide band. Making large pieces like these is like making small sculptures. You have to build them bit by bit and gradually put the pieces together. Very labour intensive and very satisfying when it finally becomes one piece of eye-catching jewelry. #handmade #jewelry #ring #sterlingsilver #rawgemstone #amethyst #customized #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean

Druzy gold filled bracelets in white, silver, champagne and blue. Available this Sunday at UpMarket. #handmade #jewelry #bracelets#druzy #goldfilled #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean

Chris is coming home early from work.

He got re-sick.

He’s had this cold for over a month now. Went through weeks of bronchitis. He was now starting to feel better when yesterday he came down was a serious attack of sinusitis.

I want to shoot Marlon. Because he didn’t stay home when Chris told him to and came to the office because he was “bored at home” he got everyone sick.

I don’t know how I managed not to get it. Honestly Chris has come home with all manner of viruses, flus and colds from that office and I never get sick with any of them.

I just run into my cousin at the pharmacy for ten seconds and get the cold.

Go figure.

So I got my genealogy breakdown… I’ll go into it in more detail later.

But yeah so it turns out I’m 43% Asian.

Dude…

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In recent years I’ve gotten really curious about this stuff & want to do it

I got mine done at familytreedna.com. The tests are at almost half off what I paid a few months ago. Now’s a good time to do it.

World Map is Redesigned & Corrected to Accurately Portray Earth

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Japanese designer Hajime Narukawa has invested years studying geography and the world of maps. Whether you know it or not, the current map version we follow, composed by Gerardus Mercator in 1569 is deeply flawed. In this erroneous map, Alaska is shown to be the same size is Brazil, which is a mistake. Brazile is almost five times larger than Alaska in reality. Along with this flaw, many others can be found.

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The fact that this is so accurate makes me so mad

This is why I don’t believe that girls mature faster than boys. They’re just excused for their immaturity for longer.

For ever really.

Thanksgiving day 2011 was the day we found out my dad had cancer.

I try not to think about it and I’m just grateful we don’t celebrate that here.

Oh and he died on Valentine’s Day. I mean way to go dad. Just fuck it all up for the rest of us.