Making friends (I was gonna say as you get older but honestly at any age) is hard. I’ve always been very cautious about letting new people into my life. I think people sense my reservations too. I could meet a bunch of new people with one of my girlfriends and at the end of the night they’ll all ask for her number and not mine. But they’ll be sure to extend an invitation to me through her the next time around. Eventually we’ll get around to exchanging numbers. Maybe a year later. And that’s my comfort zone. I take a really long time to make up my mind about people. I like to take things slow, in romance, in friendships, slow is my pace.