you know when you bid on something on ebay without thinking too hard about it and then realise maybe you’re not ready to spend that much money and then hope someone outbids you? well thank you dude who clearly wanted that scroll saw more than me

Going to see Black Panther this evening (it opens here today). I am so damn excited.

My mom is actually watching it right now. I bought my tickets a month ago and she went to see it before me. Figures.

Apparently some people do not know that silver tarnishes…

I don’t know how, but the things that people don’t know never ceases to amaze me.

waitwhatidontknow:

scarlettqagain:

julietevolves:

Our dear friend, Sarra @waitwhatidontknow has been hard at work!  She just published a sweet book about gratitude. It’s a 30 day experiment to see how gratitude can affect your life. I can’t wait to get mine.  I’m so proud and inspired by this young woman, she’s really worked hard to realize her dream. Maybe one day I’ll follow in her footsteps. Maybe she can help me to believe in myself as much as I believe in her.

Here is the Amazon link to her book:

https://www.amazon.com/Gratitude-Experiment-30-Day-Journal/dp/1981706615/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1515692678&sr=8-2&keywords=the%20gratitude%20experiment

Written by a beautiful lady about another beautiful lady. I was excited when I saw this and need to save it for when I get home….

Even when I leave this place … I still find some crazy amazing support here. I love you all.

Chadwick Boseman is 40???? I totally thought he was in his 20’s. His whole demeanor is so much younger not to mention his looks. Yoooo Black don’t crack.

trinmacianbeauty:

babysaintheron:

Hey guys, so my friend Egypt’s apartment caught on fire and honestly, the apartment is a wreck and is definitely unlivable at the moment and her and her roommates have nothing but the clothes on their back, she doesn’t have her laptop, a phone charger, her camera or any of her belongings including anymore clothes, shoes and other things she needs. If you have anything to spare please send some money their way. 

To send directly to Egypt her cash app is: $EGYPTROBERTSON, venmo: Egypt-Robertson and her paypal is egyptroberson@gmail.com and there is a gofundme that her roommates (who are brother and sister) have set up to help them get back on their feet as right now they’re all staying with their parents and have to commute to school from Jersey. https://www.gofundme.com/55vwui0

If you can donate anything please do so, if not please pass this link around thank you so much

Boost! My fellow Newark fam

I was in my studio working on some messy stuff today, and had the door to the outside open. I was wearing glasses and a dust mask. I saw neighbour cat poke her head around to see what was going on. I stood still for a moment and observed her to see what she would do. Apparently she decided whatever she was seeing was too scary and bolted. Poor thing I wonder if she knew it was me under there.

I finally used my compact circular saw today. It took a little getting used to. Cutting was a little slower than I thought it would be but I got the hang of it eventually. It’s a lot heftier of a machine than I thought it would be but it serves my purposes. I love tools so much man. 

I finally finished this… pendant I guess? It looks like a gemstone with the shiny facets. I love it! I’ll work on a pair of earrings later after I get all the dust off me and have some lunch. Also I think I need to invest in a bench sander.
・・・#handmadejewelry #uniquejewelry #beautiful #TT #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean #caribbeanlife #artisan #forher #sundara #customjewelry #artjewelry #trinidadandtobago #artisanjewelry #sundarajewelry #handmade #fashionjewelry #tandt #personalized #semipreciousgemstones
#resin #resinjewelry #organic #nature #ecoresin #naturejewelry #secretforesttreasures

Work in progress. Manzanita burl wood with resin. Power tools in effect! #handmadejewelry #uniquejewelry #beautiful #TT #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean #caribbeanlife #artisan #forher #sundara #customjewelry #artjewelry #trinidadandtobago #artisanjewelry #sundarajewelry #handmade #fashionjewelry #tandt #personalized #semipreciousgemstones
#resin #resinjewelry #organic #nature #ecoresin #naturejewelry #secretforesttreasures

I haven’t used my compact circular saw yet. I’m being a pussy and I’m a little afraid of it.

Times like these I feel disappointed in myself. I’m perfectly capable of handling the fucking tool. I read the whole manual. I know what to do. I’m just being an ass about it. Maybe tomorrow I will test it out just to cross that hurdle.

I just remembered I have a shipment of orchids to pick up from the florist on the 21st.

You know what’s also happening on the 21st? Black Panther Day!!!!

I keep finding all these old ID’s belonging to my dad. I found his diplomatic ID among my things a while back and I had no idea how it got there. This was his work ID from Venezuela that showed up in my drawer the other day. Was it always there? Is it a message? Do I just need to clean out my drawers? Anyway I was just admiring how handsome he looked back then, even if he is a little green.

Beautiful rose cut ocean grey quartz set in yellow gold filled. 6mm size stone. Love these beautiful gemstones. #handmadejewelry #uniquejewelry #beautiful #TT #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean #caribbeanlife #artisan #forher #sundara #customjewelry #artjewelry #trinidadandtobago #artisanjewelry #sundarajewelry #handmade #fashionjewelry #tandt #goldfilled #personalized #abstract #semipreciousgemstones #oceangreyquartz #ring #rosecut #cabochons

Recognizing emotionally mature people

myragewillendworlds:

Taken from Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson, Psy.D. A summary of the tips the book hands you on how to recognize emotionally healthy people.

They’re realistic and reliable

They work with reality rather than fighting it. They see problems and try to fix them, instead of overreacting with a fixation on how things should be.

They can feel and think at the same time. The ability to think even when upset makes an emotionally mature person someone you can reason with. They don’t lose their ability to see another perspective just because they aren’t getting what they want.

Their consistency makes them reliable. Because they have an integrated sense of self, they usually won’t surprise you with unexpected inconsistencies.

They don’t take everything personally. They can laugh at themselves and their foibles. They’re realistic enough to not feel unloved just because you made a mistake.

They’re respectful and reciprocal

They respect your boundaries. They’re looking for connection and closeness, not intrusion, control or enmeshment. They respect your individuality and that others have the final say on what their motivations are. They may tell you how they feel about what you did, but they don’t pretend to know you better than you know yourself.

They give back. They don’t like taking advantage of people, nor do they like the feeling of being used.

They are flexible and compromise well. Because collaborative, mature people don’t have an agenda to win at all costs, you won’t feel like you’re being taken advantage of. Compromise doesn’t mean mutual sacrifice; it means a mutual balancing of desires. They care about how you feel and don’t want to leave you feeling unsatisfied.

They’re even-tempered. They don’t sulk or pout for long periods of time or make you walk on eggshells.
When angered, they will usually tell you what’s wrong and ask you to do things differently. They’re willing to take the initiative to bring conflict to a close.

They are willing to be influenced. They don’t feel threatened when other people see things differently, nor are they afraid of seeming weak if they don’t know something. They may not agree, but they’ll try to understand your point of view.

They’re truthful. They understand why you’re upset if they lie or give you a false impression.

They apologize and make amends. They want to be responsible for their own behavior and are willing to apologize when needed.

They’re responsive

Their empathy makes you feel safe. Along with self-awareness, empathy is the soul of emotional intelligence.

They make you feel seen and understood. Their behavior reflects their desire to really get to know you, rather than looking for you to mirror them. They aren’t afraid of your emotions and don’t tell you that you should be feeling some other way.

They like to comfort and be comforted. They are sympathetic and know how crucial friendly support can be.

They reflect on their actions and try to change. They clearly understand how people affect each other emotionally. They take you seriously if you tell them about a behavior of theirs that makes you uncomfortable. They’ll remain aware of the issue and demonstrate follow-through in their attempts to change.

They can laugh and be playful. Laughter is a form of egalitarian play between people and reflects an ability to relinquish control and follow someone else’s lead.

They’re enjoyable to be around. They aren’t always happy, but for the most part they seem able to generate their own good feelings and enjoy life.

–  ©
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Lindsay C. Gibson, Psy.D.

adv3nturelust:

This is it: this is your sign. You’re brand new, refreshed, empowered to change. Your calmer, softer times are coming. Your confidence, your happiness, your bliss, is arriving. Self acceptance is easier, and taking care of yourself is no longer a chore, but something you look forward to. You start to feel replenished – you’re *you* again – and the next chapter of your happier life begins now.

soulsistrin:

It is carnival Tuesday we’ve been put on the raid since end 7 am. It’s now noon and I am officially drunk.

Jesus I only just saw what I typed. I meant to say we were out on the road since 7am. But like I was drunk so that mess up there happened.

It is carnival Tuesday we’ve been put on the raid since end 7 am. It’s now noon and I am officially drunk.

I was watching this show and they asked Kevin Bacon about the whole Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon thing and how he responded to it when he heard about it, and he said he didn’t take it as a positive thing and felt like it was a joke and his expense. And I felt so disappointed that he took it that way man. I mean he thinks it’s cool now but meh.

im-so-3008:

It’s really common for West Indians to stay living with their parents as adults. In Trinidad the cost of housing is really high. Most people with a college degree and an entry level job cannot afford to rent a place here. Parents would rather you save your money for a mortgage and stay at home. Honestly we find it really weird how in other places people want to kick their kids out as soon as they turn 18. 

knifeandforkfightingdumpling replied to your post “I went to renew the insurance on my car today and I think they…”

is it a new car or old one….trust me accident yes it goes up but remember your car depreciates and if your car is older than 5 years u gonna pay less than 2K TT

It’s older. No the point I was making was that with the no claim bonus the price went down from last year but it went down much more than it should have given what they said the no claim bonus was.

I went to renew the insurance on my car today and I think they undercharged me.

I had lost my no claim bonus a couple years ago when I had an accident so today would have been the first time I got to benefit from it.

When she gave me the total it sounded too low. So I asked her how much the no claim bonus was and she told me 15%. I even went so far as to ask what I paid last year and she told me the amount. What I paid today was a 25% deduction.

I dunno if it was a typo or a mistake or what but I shut my mouth and just paid what she asked and got out of there.

Some people’s lives seem to flow in a narrative; mine had many stops and starts. That’s what trauma does. It interrupts the plot. You can’t process it because it doesn’t fit with what came before or what comes afterwards.

Foriegn Policy lecturer, Jessica Stern
(via soothsayercharacternotes)

You can’t rely on anyone.” She shrugs and flicks the ash off her burning cigarette. “Even the people you trust most in the world will let you down at some point. Maybe not in a big way to them but your heart will sink to the pit of your stomach and it’ll stay there forever. You’ll never forget that feeling.” She purses her lips and takes a drag, then she looks at me. Her eyes bright with pain as smoke drifts from between of her berry stained lips. “So, save yourself the trouble and have your own back. Because no one is going to come along and save you when things go wrong. You have to stand on your own two feet and save yourself.

Excerpt from the book I’ll never write (via shewriteslikeshebreathes)

Lovely chunk of raw #amethyst set in gold filled. Sending it out tomorrow for a lucky birthday girl birthday 🎂 #handmadejewelry #uniquejewelry #beautiful #TT #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean #caribbeanlife #artisan #forher #sundara #customjewelry #artjewelry #trinidadandtobago #artisanjewelry #sundarajewelry #handmade #fashionjewelry #tandt #goldfilled #personalized #abstract #semipreciousgemstones #amethyst #ring

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PRESS PLAY! I just found this beauty I made a while back. Sterling silver textured open band with gold filled accents. Fits sizes 6-8. #handmadejewelry #uniquejewelry #beautiful #TT #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean #caribbeanlife #artisan #forher #sundara #customjewelry #artjewelry #trinidadandtobago #artisanjewelry #sundarajewelry #handmade #fashionjewelry #tandt #goldfilled #personalized #abstract #sterlingsilver

Finished the ring from yesterday. Sterling silver chevron ring with 3mm turquoise cabochon. . . . #handmadejewelry #uniquejewelry #beautiful #TT #buylocal #trinidad #caribbean #caribbeanlife #artisan #forher #sundara #customjewelry #artjewelry #trinidadandtobago #artisanjewelry #sundarajewelry #handmade #fashionjewelry #tandt #goldfilled #personalized #abstract #semipreciousgemstones #sterlingsilver #turquoise

tinysaurus-rex:

thehobbutts:

thehobbutts:

thehobbutts:

thehobbutts:

thehobbutts:

these are colorblind glasses. im about to take a walk around the neighborhood and experience colors like normal people. wish me luck, updates to come.

the trees. holy shit the trees. theyre different colors. like, a million different colors

grass….. it looks so soft… so green…

after laying in the grass for about an hour staring at the autumn leaves and laughing at how blue the sky is, i have some insight to share:

why the fuck do you people buy red cars like i had no idea how bright and obnoxious they looked

there are BERRIES on the trees. like bright red. id never noticed them because they blended in. a new problem has arisen now: how the fuck do you people keep yourselves from trying to eat them they’re so tempting looking

the fallen leaves are so beautiful and colorful and you all are heathens for stepping on them just to hear the crunchy sound they make

rainbows. let me tell you about rainbows. i see rainbows as various shades of brown and yellow, plus some blue. vaguely purple.

a few days ago, i saw a rainbow in these glasses. it had just finished raining and then the sun came out, and my friend and i scrambled out the door.

i saw green. red. orange. real, actual violet.

i cried. i cried so hard. i saw every color – something i never thought would happen in my life. imagine living your life without knowing something so beautiful exists, and all of a sudden it appears before your eyes. theres no way to prepare for it. the rainbow only lasted for five minutes before it disappeared, but every with second i stood there i became more amazed at how beautiful this world actually is, i just had no idea.

This is so pure

sapphicsideshow:

did-you-kno:

Frankenstein author Mary Shelley
kept her dead husband’s heart and
carried it with her for almost 30 years
until she died in 1851. It was found in
a desk drawer a year later, wrapped
in a copy of one of his final poems. Source

No matter how goth you are, you will never be as goth as Mary Shelley.

pansticks:

#theartysts #socality #folksouls #if10k #earthfocus #travelstoke #forgeyourownpath #discoverglobe #bevisuallyinspired #stayandwander #ttunseen #ttphotosoc #ig_caribbean #exploretocreate #trinidadandtobago #trinidad #instagood #l4l #islandlife #nature #naturelovers

rosenrot5:

itsclintoncraig:

shakirugh:

when Americans compare the World Cup to the Super Bowlimage

I don’t think you people understand how massive the Super Bowl is in this country

I don’t think you people understand how massive the World Cup is in the whole world

adv3nturelust:

This is it: this is your sign. You’re brand new, refreshed, empowered to change. Your calmer, softer times are coming. Your confidence, your happiness, your bliss, is arriving. Self acceptance is easier, and taking care of yourself is no longer a chore, but something you look forward to. You start to feel replenished – you’re *you* again – and the next chapter of your happier life begins now.

I went into my studio today with the full intention of working. But the petals I wanted to use were wrinkled (I put them between some heavy books), I couldn’t find my saw blades to cut some wood I wanted to cast in resin, and if I wasn’t casting the wood in resin then it didn’t make sense mixing resin for any of the other pieces I wanted to finish since they were so small. So in the end I just ended up leaving. But I worked Saturday so I’m allowed to kind of take today off right?

I just had a sea salt caramel magnum. And all I want is another one. It’s disgusting how good those things are.

I bought myself a compact circular saw today. I can’t wait to get it. I’m such a sucker for tools man.