I have a friend who in real life is sweet, supportive, loyal, thoughtful, generous and kind. However her online persona is terrifying and if I had met her through facebook I would have run for the hills.
Her statuses consist of throwing words for other people (who she does not name so in her mind it’s ok), complaining posts about her husband or other family members that are so transparent she might as well tag them, catty remarks about other people’s appearances and just in general too much of what is going on inside of her brain.
I put her on that 30 day snooze thing a couple of days ago because I just couldn’t take being bombarded with so much negativity. It’s fine if you wanna work out your shit in a public forum and tell everybody your business and who you have beef with, it’s not for me to tell you how to manage your social media presence, but I can’t be on the receiving end of all that shit. Also, it looks messy as fuck. I find myself putting a lot of distance between us lately because while in person she’s really delightful, that part of her scares the shit out of me and I don’t want to incur that wrath of hers.